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Kathryn Mannix: With the End In Mind: Dying, Death, and Wisdom in an Age of Denial
Type: Paperback, Hardback, Kindle
Category: Non-fiction,Mémoire
Keywords: mortality, palliative care, end-of-life care
In With the End in Mind, Dr. Kathryn Mannix, a palliative care physician with 30 years of experience, offers a deeply moving exploration of the process of dying. Through a series of carefully crafted stories about her patients, their families, and her own experiences, Mannix emphasizes the importance of approaching death with clarity, openness, and understanding rather than fear. She argues that while modern medical advancements have allowed us to live longer, they have also distanced us from the natural process of dying, turning it into something to be feared and resisted.
Mannix advocates for a return to viewing death as a natural part of life, encouraging forethought and preparation. Her stories highlight how, with proper care and communication, dying can be a peaceful and dignified experience. The book offers profound meditations on life, death, and the space in between, demonstrating how understanding and acceptance can help both the dying and their loved ones find meaning and comfort in life’s final chapter. By reacquainting readers with the universal yet personal experience of death, she reveals the unexpected beauty and humanity at the end of life, challenging our modern attitudes toward mortality.
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“The death rate remains 100 per cent, and the pattern of the final days, and the way we actually die, are unchanged. What is different is that we have lost the familiarity we once had with that process, and we have lost the vocabulary and etiquette that served us so well in past times, when death was acknowledged to be inevitable. Instead of dying in a dear and familiar room with people we love around us, we now die in ambulances and emergency rooms and intensive care units, our loved ones separated from us by the machinery of life preservation.”
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Editorial Reviews
"I read this book as part of research for a master’s thesis on dying in a hypermedicalised era. It profoundly resonated with my own experiences as a practitioner, where I often grappled with the ethical dilemmas surrounding end-of-life care. The extreme measures taken to prolong life in clinical settings, often past the point of humanity, left me feeling alienated and questioning the purpose of such interventions.
Her insights provide a framework to make sense of these struggles, offering an alternative perspective on how we might approach death with compassion, acceptance, and preparation. Kathryn writes with empathy and a liberal sprinkling of humour, making this book an engaging read. If you have ever questioned you role in the end-of-life care of your patients, especially in terms of understanding when medical intervention becomes too much, read this book" Linda Ravenhill, Editor
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